[ti:Oil and Water Do Not Mix] [al:Words and Their Stories] [ar:VOA] [dt:2023-05-07] [by:www.voase.cn] [00:06.26]And now, Words and Their Stories, from VOA Learning English. [00:18.85]Oil and water are two very different substances. [00:24.86]Oil is thick. Water is thin. [00:29.11]If you pour oil into water, they do not mix, and the oil floats to the top. [00:37.71]This difficult relationship can play a part in some laboratory experiments. [00:44.52]It can play a big part in kitchens as we cook food. [00:49.77]It can also be used to describe some of our personal relationships. [00:57.00]If we say two people are like oil and water, it means they do not get along. [01:04.46]They are not compatible. [01:08.38]Things like objects, elements, and people that do not or cannot mix together easily can be compared to oil and water. [01:20.30]Here is an example from experience. [01:23.77]My friend often asked me to watch her cat Bluey when she would travel out of town. [01:31.07]Usually, cats love me but not Bluey. [01:35.44]He would make terrible cat noises as soon as I walked into the apartment. [01:41.99]Every time I tried to pet him, he would bite and scratch me. [01:46.98]So, I didn't like him either. We were like oil and water. [01:53.36]I took care of him, but for the most part, we ignored each other. [02:00.55]This expression describes how oil and water naturally separate. [02:06.54]They are incompatible. So are people who have nothing in common and do not get along. [02:14.76]We sometimes say oil and water do not mix to express an opinion that two things do not go together. [02:23.66]Here is another "oil" expression. If you pour oil on troubled water, you calm a tense situation. [02:34.38]You might not hear this expression too much in America as it is mainly a British usage. [02:43.11]Now let's hear the expression used between two friends. [02:48.28]A: I'm worried about my birthday party. [02:53.09]B: Why? It's not until next weekend. [02:56.05]A: It doesn't matter. [02:58.45]My two best friends will never find a way to get along. [03:04.24]Ben likes to plan everything and is a bit of a control freak. [03:11.07]Kara is super easy going and likes to play things by ear. [03:17.11]B: Those two sound like oil and water. [03:20.88]A: They are! And they want to throw the party together. What a truly bad idea. [03:28.69]B: I have a good idea. [03:30.80]I'll come to the party early. [03:33.43]If things between them get heated, I'll get between them and calm things down. [03:40.05]A: You'll be the oil on my troubled waters! [03:43.70]B: Sure. Whatever you say. I just want to have fun at your party! [03:49.44]And that's all the time we have for this Words and Their Stories. Until next time ... I'm Anna Matteo.